Okay, I just spent several hours bringing all the original smilies over from the old SFReader forums, and adding a whole bunch of new ones. You'll find a smilie menu to the right of the text box when posting.

If you click on the word More underneath the few that show up, you'll get a popup window (so enable pop ups) with the entire selection.

Like this one




and this one




and even this one



just click on the one you want and it'll show up in your post automatically

or type in the word underneath it. you'll see : : bracketing the words. if you leave those off, the forum won't replace them with the actual smilie